Foods you can fuck with: spicing up your sex life with Chelsea Liley
Fucking with food isn’t just about putting your dick into something or sticking something delicious inside you. Yes, I’ll take you through foods you can penetrate/be penetrated with, but this is also an exploration of all the ways you can fuck with food. Whether it’s on you, in you, or even around you – food can be a fun way to explore senses, add sensuality and some (metaphorical) spice to your repertoire.
Before we get anywhere near the pantry, it’s a good idea to first do a little bit of research into what you do and don’t like. There’s no point bringing a tomato to the party if tomato is your least favourite fruit. Think about all the foods and flavors that make your tongue wag, get your mouth drooling and thighs dripping. Pleasure is extremely personal, so even though some foods may be considered aphrodisiacs there’s no point in using them they don’t work for you (oysters? *blegh*). Food play is all about indulging in tastes and textures that you find desirable.
Not only is pleasure a deeply personal experience, it can be created in multiple different ways. Sex is the obvious one, but it can also come from platonic experiences like food, hobbies, different environments, colours and pets. A lot of these pleasure experiences incorporate different senses. Food is obviously related to taste, but often incorporates other senses. For example – think of an orange. Are you visualising its bright colour? Or maybe its smell as you imagine slicing it open, letting a wave of that sweet and zesty citrus tickle your nose, perhaps your mouth begins to water as you can see yourself tasting it. See what I mean? If your body is already responding to the idea of food, imagine what senses you could illicit and play with in real life.
Sex is also deeply sensual and sensory, so combining food and fucking can lead to incredibly pleasurable and erotic experiences. If you’re willing to try it, food is a fantastic way to amplify pleasure because it can be done solo or paired. It can be used to get messy and have some fun with a partner (or partners), or as a way to expand your own self-pleasure practice. When mixing food and another human body, it’s a good idea to have a chat with any partners involved beforehand about the foods you’re into, any allergies you have, as well as the type of touches you like.
I was lying there electrified, turned on by his every touch, by the smell and the taste of the honey on his tongue as I kissed him, the sight of watching it drip down my own naked body, the sounds he made as he explored my body in a new way.
My favourite food is honey (bonus points for being a natural aphrodisiac). There is just something about its sickly sweetness and stickiness that gets me going. A few years ago, me and my partner at the time decided to bring a bit of honey into the bedroom. We laid down a towel (highly recommend for high mess contexts) and he slowly drizzled this golden-yellow goo down my body. It felt divine as it slid over my shoulders and down my front and journeyed tantalizingly slowly towards my bellybutton. He then proceeded to lick every inch of my body, making sure to remove every last trace of the sticky residue off my body. I was lying there electrified, turned on by his every touch, by the smell and the taste of the honey on his tongue as I kissed him, the sight of watching it drip down my own naked body, the sounds he made as he explored my body in a new way. It was divine. I was honey-drizzled and soaked in satisfaction.
Then it was his turn. . . and this is a great example of why vocalising your desires is valuable. I had enjoyed the slow, teasing touch as he licked and sucked the honey off my body, and I thought I would repay the favour. So, I took my time. At first it was great, he was rock hard and ready to go, but I expertly avoided his groin, instead sucking and slurping the honey off his chest and his thighs, getting closer but never close enough. I was relishing teasing him, and the taste of honey now on my own tongue. But halfway through I looked down and realized he had gone soft. “You were taking too long.” he said. That’s exactly why it’s important to not only know what each other likes the taste of, but also how the other likes to be touched. There’s no point teasing them with honey if they don’t like the feeling of being teased. There’s a lot of fun to be had fucking with food, you just have to know what works for you – and how to communicate that with your partner.
Now let’s get into it – the pantry that is. If you’re a penis-owner and want to explore foods you can fuck, I suggest anything soft and warm. The obvious candidate, is yes, apple pie (we’ve all seen *that* scene), but this could be extended to any form of baked goods if you’re willing to put the prep time in. Important to note, make sure that it isn’t TOO hot before any form of penetration. Fruits like grapefruit, watermelon, cucumbers and peaches are great options as well. Larger items can be used by slicing holes inside them, you can even use them to add extra sensory excitement (and taste) to manual stimulation like blow jobs and hand jobs. Let’s take the grapefruit for example (another iconic movie scene) which you can use to create your own organic cock ring. Slice it top and tail, shaping a hole in the center in a size that works for you. You can then use the grapefruit as a manual stimulator, to add a different texture and sensation to hand jobs, or during oral stimulation with your hand manipulating the grapefruit at the base while using your mouth on the tip. These techniques can be used both solo or partnered – and may even leave your partner sucking you off like a lollipop if you get the flavours right.
If you want to explore other ways to fuck with food internally, ice is fantastic it because it also adds sensory stimulation through temperature play.
Things can be a little trickier for vulva-owner as we have to watch out for pH levels, with increased chances of UTI’s and other conditions caused by foods that mess up our natural flora. I personally wouldn’t insert food inside my vulva, but if you really want to go down the cucumber or carrot route, I strongly encourage you to wash them beforehand with warm soapy water (giving a good rinse after) and to use a condom for an extra layer of protection. If you want to explore other ways to fuck with food internally, ice is fantastic it because it also adds sensory stimulation through temperature play. As always when trying something new, take your time to see how your body reacts and use a condom to protect sensitive internal skin as you discover what works for you.
Onto equipment we all have – it’s important to remember not to put anything up your butt, food-related or not, that doesn’t have a tapered end. Getting something stuck up there isn’t a good time for anyone. You want to be careful using anything that’s not specifically designed for asses; use a condom to prevent any organic matter from breaking off inside you, and don’t put anything in your mouth that’s been in someone’s ass. That doesn’t mean that your butt misses out on all the foodstuff fun! You can squeeze and drizzle the juice from fruit onto the anus, exploring how that feels, and even how it tastes. Using food as a naturally flavoured lubricant for exploring anal play and rimming is a lot of fun.
You can feed each other food, playing close attention to the sensuality of the experience, using the sound, smell, look and feel of the food to tease each other.
In terms of foods to fuck with, but maybe not WITH, the list is endless. Chocolate-covered strawberries, chocolate-covered anything really, whipped cream, honey, ice cream, lollies, fruits of all kinds, champagne – any of your favourite foods can be used to stimulate your senses during sex. Try putting it on your body and licking it off, or having your partner lick it off, fun for both parties involved! Or you can feed each other food, playing close attention to the sensuality of the experience, using the sound, smell, look and feel of the food to tease each other. Trace it over each other’s skin, hold it under their nose to breathe in, tease them by holding it against their tongue.
When it comes to fucking with food you’re only really limited by your own imagination. So, whether you’re experimenting with delicious foreplay or the main course, have fun with it and incorporate all your senses. In case you need some more inspiration I’ll leave you with another appetizing anecdote from when a lover of mine blindfolded me and tantalized me with a buffet of my favourite foods. They held a lime under my nose, dripped warm chocolate on my body, and pushed a strawberry slowly and sensually against my lips until I bit. Safe to say that smorgasbord left more than just my mouth watering – no penetration required! Now that you’ve whet your appetite for food play, enjoy turning yourself (or someone else) into a sexy, sensual snack.