Disability Pride Month Pleasure for everyone: that’s Handi!
Andrew, disability consultant, and Heather, innovation strategist, are on a mission to put pleasure within reach and honestly, it’s about fucking time. It’s wild to think that before Handi there were no sex toys designed for and by disabled people.
Motivated by the fact that hundreds of millions of people around the world can’t masturbate due to hand limitations, Handi’s Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison channeled their passion, skills, and an incredible team including the only person in the world to hold a PHD in sex toy design, to create a prototype of the world’s first ever accessible sex toy. You can now register for presale for the Handi Joystick – just in time for Disability Pride Month!
To fund their line of toys, Handi have released a book that’s full of raw, powerful and enlightening stories, poetry and artwork from 50 contributors from the disabled community. The Handi Book of Love, Lust and Disability isn’t just designed for disabled people – the Handi team want the book to be a conversation starter for people to understand what it feels like to love, lust and live in a disabled body. It’s a place where disabled people can see themselves represented honestly – and for people outside that community to see open, real and juicy conversations about body image, societal perceptions, pleasure, pain, sex work, partner’s perspectives and much more, as Andrew explains:
This book is a place for disabled people to feel comfortable as sexual beings, and it is a place for non-disabled folks to confront their own ableist views about sexuality and disability. This book is required reading for everyone!
We asked Andrew and Heather to share their favourite excerpts to give you a little teaser:
I also can’t get enough of the simplicity of this post. A disabled person owning their sexiness and being playful about it, no less. Iconic.
“Do I find myself sexy? Yes definitely! I think I’m pretty handsome. I’m very, very happy with myself generally speaking. And I have a lot of penis pride!”
Matthew, He/Him/His, Cerebral Palsy, Deaf, Gay, Sydney, Australia
Chantelle Otten gives able bodied people a glimpse of what dating someone with a disability is like and the beautiful, potentially unexpected, benefits that come along with it. A lot of able bodied people shy away from dating people with disabilities, often of their own insecurity or misunderstandings – her passage helps to shed a light on their relationship and the beauty and sexiness within it. Not to mention – swoon!
“I could tell he was the kind of person that was going to be able to make anything happen for us, no matter what his capabilities were. To me, he is the most extraordinary person I have ever met, and I admire his drive and passion for me (first and foremost), for life, and for changing the conversation around disability. He is sexy, he is smart, and he is kind… he is the best person in the world.
Dylan is very strong and he moves very easily around the bed; we just flow naturally, as erotic beings. We have sex in a different way to able-bodied sex, but it is much more erotic and interesting. We incorporate kinky stuff, toys and communicate with passion. Being with him opens up a huge amount of opportunity because we have to think outside the mainstream box. We have to tap into our imagination and roles in the bedroom and enjoy every part of each other’s bodies, incorporating many erogenous zones.”
Chantelle Otten, She/Her/Hers, Dylan Alcott’s Partner